In a world often quick to label and stereotype, young dads face a unique set of challenges. They are often perceived as irresponsible, uninterested, or even dangerous. Yet, the reality is far from it. Young dads are just as capable and loving as any other dads, and they deserve the same support and recognition.
Kev Stoodley, founder of the North East Young Dads and Lads Project (NEYDL), saw firsthand the lack of support available to young fathers. So, he decided to take action and create a space where these men could connect, learn, and grow.
NEYDL provides a range of services, including parenting classes, mental health support, and opportunities for social interaction. The charity also has a peer support program that connects new dads with more experienced ones.
Young dads like Tyler Reed and James Withycombe both have benefited from NEYDL's support. Tyler, a full-time parent to his 10-month-old daughter Aurianna, says the charity has been life-changing. "Without the support from the guys here, (sic) I don't want to know where I probably would've ended up," he says.
James, a 21-year-old dad to his daughter Violet, says that NEYDL has helped him connect with other young dads and feel less alone. He says, "It's difficult to bring Violet around other kids because it's hard to find young dads like myself."
Professor Anna Tarrant, who has been leading a research study into the lives of young fathers, says that there is a lack of data on this important group. She believes there is a need for more research and support for young fathers.
One way that NEYDL supports young fathers is by getting them involved in peer support programs. These programs allow young dads to connect with each other and share their experiences.
Nathan Noble, a 27-year-old dad to his son Riley-Don, is one of the peer support dads at NEYDL. He says that taking young dads out for activities like bike rides helps them open up and connect.
Young dads are not deadbeats. According to Nathan, all fathers he's worked with are loving, caring, and dedicated to their children. With the right support, they can overcome any obstacle and thrive in their roles as fathers.
Picture: Scarlett and Dad (ChildUp.com)
