Family physician and psychologist Dr. Leonard Sax recently chatted with Timmerie Geagea in her podcast “Trending with Timmerie” about the dangers of "gentle parenting." He explained that this modern parenting approach, which emphasizes passivity and avoiding direct discipline, can be harmful to both children and parents. Instead, he advocates for proactive parenting, where parents take an active role in guiding and disciplining their children.

Dr. Sax shared an example from his medical practice where a mother refused to help her six-year-old daughter comply with a simple medical examination. When the child refused to open her mouth, the mother responded with "Her body, her choice," a phrase originally used in the pro-abortion movement. Dr. Sax found this reaction troubling, as it suggested the child had full autonomy over medical decisions, ignoring the parent's responsibility for their child's well-being.

The philosophy behind gentle parenting suggests that parents should never command or discipline their children but instead offer suggestions and encouragement. While acknowledging children's emotions is important, this approach often leads to a lack of structure and guidance. Children need direction and discipline to develop resilience and maturity. They should not be left to navigate important decisions on their own.

To raise responsible and capable children, Dr. Sax encourages parents to be proactive. This means being involved in their child’s life, setting clear expectations, and providing discipline when necessary. Children benefit from strong authority figures who teach them responsibility. Permissive or gentle parenting, on the other hand, leaves children to make choices beyond their understanding.

Parenting is not about avoiding conflict or taking the easy way out - it’s about shaping the future. Children thrive when given structure, firm guidance, and strong leadership. By stepping up with confidence and consistency, parents empower their children to grow into resilient, responsible, and capable adults.

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